25 Things About Life I Wish I Had Known 10 Years Ago

1. Struggle is good.

Never say,
“I can’t take it anymore."
Instead say,
"bring it on!”


2. Don’t complain.

Complaining is the biggest waste of time there is.
Either do something about it,
or if you can’t, shut up about it.


3. Spend time with people you love.

That’s your family and best friends.
If you don’t have a family, create one.
Most people in life are only visitors. Family is for life.


4. Don’t start a relationship if you’re not in love.

I’ve done this more than once.
You kind of like someone and think,
“We might as well give it a shot."
Not a good idea.
You’re either in love or you are not.
Don’t fool yourself.
It’s not fair to you or the other person.


5. Exercise daily.

I didn’t get this until recently.
A healthy body is where you have to start everything in life.
If you can’t build a healthy and strong body,
what can you build in life?


6. Keep a journal.

No, keeping a journal is not for children.
It helps you to become a better thinker and writer.
"I don’t want to be a writer,”
you might think. Well, how many emails and texts do you send a day?
Everybody is a writer.


7. Be grateful.

Say “thank you” to everyone and everything.
“Thank you for this beautiful day."
"Thank you for your email."
"Thank you for being there for me.”


8. Don’t care about what other people think.

We all die in the end—
do you really think it matters what people think of you?


9. Take more risks.

Don’t be such a wimp.


10. Pick an industry, not a job.

If you want to become good at something,
you need to spend years and years doing that.
You can’t do that if you hop from industry to industry.
Pick an industry you love and start at the bottom.
You will find the perfect role for you eventually.


11. Lead the way.

When you find yourself in a situation where everyone looks at each other,
it’s time for you to lead.
You’re a leader when you decide to become one.
There’s no initiation or a title.
Just a decision.


12. Money isn’t important.

It really isn’t.
But you have to train yourself not to care about money.
Don’t become too dependent on the stuff you own;
otherwise, the stuff will own you.


13. Be nice.

I don’t mean you should be a pushover.
You can be someone that doesn’t take sh*t and be nice about it.
Just don’t insult people,
think you’re better than them,
or act like an idiot.


14. Learn every day.

You’ve got to train your brain to stay alert.
You don’t have to read a book a day to learn every day.
Learn from your mistakes.
Learn from the people around you—
be open to what they can teach you.


15. Rest before you are tired.

Even if you love your job and every day seems like a holiday,
you need to take time to rest.
You’re a human,
not an android.
Never forget that.


16. Don’t judge.

Just because people make different choices than you doesn’t mean they’re stupid.
Also, you don’t know everything about people,
so don’t judge them—help them.


17. Think about others.

Just be mindful, that’s all.
We all have families,
bills to pay, and our own issues.
Don’t always make everything about yourself.


18. Give without expecting something in return.

Don’t keep score.
You will become a bitter person if you do that.
Give solely for the joy of giving.
If you get something in return, great.
If you don’t, great.


19. There’s no end game.

We, as a species, just are.
Don’t try to figure it all out.
Enjoy your journey.


20. Enjoy small things.

I like clichés because they are true. Especially this one.
You know why? Everyone says they know it, but no one lives up to it.
They just chase big things.


21. Don’t take yourself so seriously.

Yeah, yeah, you’re an individual,
and people have to take you seriously, I get it.
But at the end of the day,
we’re all a bunch of ants trying to chase the same things.
Lighten up.


22. Don’t blame people.

What’s the point?
Do you want to punish them?
You don’t do that to people.
Also don’t blame yourself—
you’re only human.

23. Create something.

Not to leave a legacy (you won’t be here to see it anyway),
but to be of use.
Make music, write a book, build a table—anything.
You’ll feel good about yourself,
plus you give something back to people to use or enjoy.


24. Never look back too long.

Reflecting on the past is only good for one thing: learning.


25. Take action.

Don’t just sit there,
do something.
Without action,
there is no outcome.


original post: https://best-life-hacks-on.tumblr.com/post/167898419437/25-things-about-life-i-wish-i-had-known-10-years

Helpful

Found it helpful somehow. haha

"I’m done with those; 

regrets are an excuse for people who have failed."

(Untitled)

If I had a child, I’d name them after a natural phenomena

moonbow / lunar rainbow / white rainbow 
sun bow
water sky
aurora 
ice blink
light pillar
haze / mist 
fire rainbow
luminescent wave
snow
solar / lunar eclipse 
daytime moon
daytime stars
midnight sun
star / stella 
supernova
cloud
frost flower
lightning
thunder
storm
sky
sunrise
star fall / shooting star
winter / summer / fall or autmun / spring
wave
flow
crystal / crystallize / seed crystal

via: starlilium

没有灵感

过着生活，就是希望 :)

怎么这样中肯呵

中肯啊

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受的苦，吃的亏，担的责，扛的罪，忍的痛，到最后都会变成光，照亮你的路。

【女孩子该学会的处事方法】

1、学会冷血，只对对我好的人好

2、学会绝情，该滚的就滚，该留的就留

3、学会残忍，该杀的就杀，该放手就放手

4、学会快乐，要微笑着面对痛苦

5、学会孤独，没有谁会把你当宝护着，世界总是孤单的

6、学会视而不见，厌恶的东西选择屏蔽

地球之所以是圆的，是因为上帝想让那些走失或迷路的人重新相遇。然而失去缘分的人就算在同一座城市，也不容易碰到。许久不联系的人，不用再联系。各自辛苦，各自生活，也再无交集，该停留在过去的，就让它停留在过去，如果有缘，会再见，若无缘，不如不见。相见不如怀念，好久不见，不如不见。

2014年年中假期之第5天

【做人六条】

1.简单事不争吵，复杂事不烦恼，发火时不讲话，生气时不决策
2.对不知道的事，直接说不知道才是最轻松的
3.别人朝你扔石头,就不要扔回去了,留着做你建高楼的基石
4.遇事缓一缓，说话停一停,很多东西便会清晰
5.发射自己的光,但不要吹熄别人的灯
6.很多人都在做的事,你不做,不代表你错了
(@文史女教师)


晚上十二点后睡觉等于慢性自杀！
不吃早餐等于慢性自杀！
经常烧烤等于慢性自杀！
手机24小时开机等于慢性自杀！ 
长期呆室内等于慢性自杀！
缺乏锻炼等于慢性自杀！
(@雨点微言)

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很欠打的几个回应。

我已经中了几个....

2014 神一样的 星期五

4 . 4 . 2014

6 . 6 . 2014

8 . 8 . 2014

10 . 10 . 2014

12 .12 . 2014 

It's all FRIDAY !!!  :)

成熟！

【做到这些你也许就成熟了】

1  每天11点前睡觉，每天7：30点前起床；
2  有时间多看书。
3  多锻炼身体。
4  不与已婚人或者已经同居的人谈感情。
5  努力学习赚钱的本领。
6  常回家看看。
7  不要轻易借钱给别人。
8  要学会做个倾听者。
9  学会有品位的玩；
10 不与小气的人交往，
11 学会推拖事情。
12 学会奉承领导

肠胃不好适合吃的食物 :)

【很多胃不好的朋友，适合吃的食物】 :)

1、面条
2、如果熬粥，少放点苏打进去
3、小米粥就馒头可以养胃
4、有两种饮料应该多喝，一是牛奶，二是热水
5、胃不好要少食多餐
6、大枣、豆腐、白菜、牛奶、胡萝卜、健脾和胃
7、花生，蜂蜜都是养胃的
8、红茶。

魔法减肥方法 ~(￣▽￣)~

早餐：一根香蕉　加　一根豆浆

午餐：绿色蔬菜　加　白饭半碗　加　一个苹果

晚餐：一杯燕麦片／煮粥加小菜

睡前半小时：一杯酸奶

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